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I’ve been in several long-term relationships and I was always the one who made the decision to leave. It wasn’t always abuse that caused me to leave but normally it had to do with my asking the question “Why am I here?” Relationships, to me, should be something that enhances our lives and adds to […]
When we are in an emotionally abusive relationship it is easy to feel as if we have been victimized by our abuser. We feel hurt and wounded on a very deep level and want to blame the abuser for what he or she did to us. However being a victim will keep us trapped in […]
Before we were born, we made a choice to come here, to participate in this life! We had a purpose! A reason for being born! Little did we know how easy it would be to forget and get absorbed into the social rat race, chasing after the wrong things in attempt to feel right! if […]
Although many would disagree with me I believe anything can be cured. I am a fan of Louise Hay’s book “You Can Heal Your Life” where she talks about how incurable means “to cure from within.” This means that when a doctor says something is incurable that means the doctors don’t have a medicine or […]
In working with victims of Narcissistic abuse I realized that most people who are just coming to the realization that they have been with a narcissist come out of the relationship with symptoms of Post Traumatic Stress Disorder. I remember in my own case I was diagnosed with PTSD and tried everything to alleviate the […]
When I went to see a Psychologist after a long three year relationship with a narcissistic personality I was diagnosed with Post Traumatic Stress Disorder. Not knowing much about the disorder at the time I was confused because I always associated Post Traumatic Stress Disorder with was what war veterans had. I didn’t realize that it […]
My son and I were in a Video Store renting a DVD for the evening. We went up to stand in line and found ourselves standing behind an artistic looking man with a stack of DVD’s. The clerk politely told him his purchases would be $21.00. The price of a DVD rental at Hastings was $3.99 […]
I have frequently used the phrase “psychic vampire,” or “energy vampire” to describe a person who extracts energy from others in order to survive in their world. We have all heard of vampires, who feed on the blood of others. The psychic vampire feeds on the energy of others. However it is not normally a […]
I had a dream last night that I felt was quite interesting. In my dream a friend was over visiting and I was talking about how distraught I was over my husband’s recent behavior. It was very narcissistic. He had become aloof, detached, condescending, and playing head-games that were making my mind spin. As I […]
The work I do is Counseling others through the tragedies of narcissistic abuse. The stories I hear are all equally as horrible and unfortunately I am never surprised by anything a client tells me anymore. It is sad to get to the point where nothing surprises you anymore but this is where I find myself. My heart […]
