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Well, I have been dragging my feet, but after years of broadcasting on Pandora’s Box, I have decided to start making video’s. I’ve always been a bit camera shy and didn’t really like the idea but realize how powerful video’s are for people looking to understand a topic like narcissism. Many of my counseling clients […]
I wrote an article many years ago called “Did the Narcissist Ever Really Love Me?” This is a popular topic and so when I began doing YouTube video’s, I decided to do a video on this topic. You can watch this video below and be sure to subscribe to my channel for more powerful video’s.
When we examine the Victim Archetype, we look deep into our shadow to find the part of ourselves that looks at life through the lens of the victim. We tend to feel victimized by our relationships and circumstances in our lives. We unconsciously attract victimizers into our lives who adequately trigger us. In this episode […]
In January of 2013 I went to Costa Rica and wrote my book “Healing Narcissistic Abuse and Finding the True Self.” It has been available as an E book but not in print. By popular demand I have now launched this book in print. It is a pretty large book at 382 pages. Healing Narcissistic […]
One thing I find in my work is that some readers get the bright idea of subscribing the narcissist in their lives to my newsletter. This is a very bad idea and let me tell you why. First of all, in order to subscribe the narcissist in your life to any “opt-in” newsletter having to […]
On my path to working with others in recovery from narcissistic abuse and healing the fragmented soul I have come up against the word “healer” quite a lot. Being a healer is something you are, not something you go to school to learn how to be. Our greatest healing abilities come from within us and […]
Recently, on the advice of a mentor, I revisited Eckhart Tolle’s book “A New Earth”. Often when we have had years of growth between the last time we have read a profound book like this one, it is like reading it for the first time, because there is so much insight we might not have […]
Can we still be friends is a common question among people who have been romantically involved with a narcissist. The first question you must ask yourself is “what qualities am I looking for in my friendships?” The more we learn to love ourselves the more discerning we become of the type of people we allow […]
I recently participated in a powerful Full Moon, sound healing meditation with an amazing group of people and the result for me was incredible. I had not realized how much soul loss I had experienced in this past year through various relationship dynamics. I had not realized the affect that soul loss had on me. […]
Many of us who end up getting involved with narcissists are conditioned to deny our own needs and focus on the wants, needs and desires of the other. We learn, early on, that our needs are not important and should we voice a need, we are shamed for having it. We are often called selfish […]
