Why You Are Addicted to the Narcissist

Why You Are Addicted to the Narcissist

Teal Swan made an excellent video on the topic of Relationship Addiction.  She brings in science of how mice, when given intermittent reinforcement in the form of pellets, they become crazy obsessed, camping out at the pellet dispenser, pushing the button, trying to get a pellet.  When a pellet is dished out intermittently, the mouse […]

Can’t Face the Truth So I will Blame YOU!

Can’t Face the Truth So I will Blame YOU!

It is such a theme, I see in my work and even in my personal life with people who are unable to face the truth about something in their lives, normally something about themselves they don’t want to look at. We all have a self-protective mechanism and most people don’t like constructive criticism. We don’t […]

Caring for Your Feminine Power

Caring for Your Feminine Power

Since the beginning of time, women have been giving their sexual power away.  We learn early in life that our sexuality is something that men covet.  Our sexuality is used against us.  We have experienced abuse and rape at the hands of others, many whom we have loved and trusted. Even if you are a […]

Are You a Vibrational Match for the Narcissist?

Are You a Vibrational Match for the Narcissist?

In this episode of Pandora’s Box, Kaleah explains the energetic dance that happens in relationships and how this applies to your relationship with the narcissist. As you can understand the dance of energy, you can focus on increasing your own vibration so that you are no longer on the radar of the narcissist.

A New Program for Panic and Anxiety!

A New Program for Panic and Anxiety!

If you often find yourself “freaking out,” after the narcissistic discard, or from the PTSD following narcissistic abuse, there is help.   As a counselor specializing in Narcissistic Abuse, I have people contact me on a regular basis needing emergency care.  They are often in a state of panic and don’t know what to do.  […]

Co-Parenting with a Narcissist

Co-Parenting with a Narcissist

One of the most difficult situations I encounter in my work counseling people who have been involved with a narcissist is when there are children involved.  If you have children with a narcissist, it can feel you are in a prison for the rest of your days.  Your own imprisonment is one thing, but what […]

The Power of Prayer to Revive a Lost Soul

The Power of Prayer to Revive a Lost Soul

Nothing outside of you has power over you, other then what you give it.  The only true power in your life is the power of the creative force within you.  We call this force God, or Presence, or Lifeforce or any number of things.  It is the same force, regardless of what we call it. […]

Spiritually Surviving Narcissistic Abuse

Spiritually Surviving Narcissistic Abuse

Narcissistic abuse can be one of the most soul damaging experiences.  Most people who have experienced this would agree this kind of abuse has been the most painful thing in their lives. The question becomes “how do I survive this?” In this episode of Pandora’s Box, Kaleah talks in depth about the spiritual aspects of healing, […]

Everybody has a Dark Side

Everybody has a Dark Side

Listen on Pandora’s Box Radio I often hear people say “he really has a dark side.”  A better way of saying this might be “he has a really dark side.”  Because the truth is….we all have a dark side. We live in a world of duality and this means we have good/bad, light/dark, hot/cold, big/little, […]