Co-Parenting with a Narcissist

Co-Parenting with a Narcissist

One of the most difficult situations I encounter in my work counseling people who have been involved with a narcissist is when there are children involved.  If you have children with a narcissist, it can feel you are in a prison for the rest of your days.  Your own imprisonment is one thing, but what […]

The Power of Prayer to Revive a Lost Soul

The Power of Prayer to Revive a Lost Soul

Nothing outside of you has power over you, other then what you give it.  The only true power in your life is the power of the creative force within you.  We call this force God, or Presence, or Lifeforce or any number of things.  It is the same force, regardless of what we call it. […]

Spiritually Surviving Narcissistic Abuse

Spiritually Surviving Narcissistic Abuse

Narcissistic abuse can be one of the most soul damaging experiences.  Most people who have experienced this would agree this kind of abuse has been the most painful thing in their lives. The question becomes “how do I survive this?” In this episode of Pandora’s Box, Kaleah talks in depth about the spiritual aspects of healing, […]

Everybody has a Dark Side

Everybody has a Dark Side

Listen on Pandora’s Box Radio I often hear people say “he really has a dark side.”  A better way of saying this might be “he has a really dark side.”  Because the truth is….we all have a dark side. We live in a world of duality and this means we have good/bad, light/dark, hot/cold, big/little, […]

How Your Stories Keep you Stuck in Narcissistic Abuse

How Your Stories Keep you Stuck in Narcissistic Abuse

One of the most common questions victims of narcissistic abuse ask me is “how do I stop thinking about it?”  There are a lot of reasons we get stuck in ruminating about the narcissist and what he or she has done.  Often the behavior you have witnessed is atrocious, even unforgivable, as you might see […]

Forgiving the Unforgivable

Forgiving the Unforgivable

We’ve all heard that to forgive is divine, but what about those situations that feel nearly impossible to forgive?  What about those people who have treated you in such a way that it feels unforgivable? Many of my clients talk to me about forgiveness and the first thing I say is “don’t worry about forgiving […]

Post Traumatic Stress After Narcissistic Abuse

Post Traumatic Stress After Narcissistic Abuse

Listen and/or download the Podcast on Pandoras-box-radio.com. Most people who experience narcissistic abuse have difficulty getting anybody to understand what they are going through.  People understand physical abuse.  They understand verbal abuse.  They understand very controlling behavior, but they don’t understand the subtle, crazy making, type of slow destruction that results in complex post traumatic […]

Narcissism Free Now on YouTube

Narcissism Free Now on YouTube

Well, I have been dragging my feet, but after years of broadcasting on Pandora’s Box, I have decided to start making video’s.  I’ve always been a bit camera shy and didn’t really like the idea but realize how powerful video’s are for people looking to understand a topic like narcissism. Many of my counseling clients […]

Was It Ever Really Love?

Was It Ever Really Love?

I wrote an article many years ago called “Did the Narcissist Ever Really Love Me?” This is a popular topic and so when I began doing YouTube video’s, I decided to do a video on this topic. You can watch this video below and be sure to subscribe to my channel for more powerful video’s.

The Victim Archetype

The Victim Archetype

When we examine the Victim Archetype, we look deep into our shadow to find the part of ourselves that looks at life through the lens of the victim. We tend to feel victimized by our relationships and circumstances in our lives. We unconsciously attract victimizers into our lives who adequately trigger us. In this episode […]