Does the Narcissist Have Karma?

Does the Narcissist Have Karma?

Karma is in the consciousness!  Whatever we put out into the world energetically, emotionally and mentally, takes root in our consciousness and is reflected back to us in our outer reality.  When it feels like you are the one being punished for another person’s crimes, you can’t help but wonder if the perpetrator, or the […]

The 3 C’s of Codependency

The 3 C’s of Codependency

Have you ever thought that Codependency is the reason you are attracted to and stay in toxic and/or dysfunctional relationships? Codependency is a pretty common buzz word these days but also a very common coping mechanism for people who grew up with dysfunctional family dynamics. In this episode of Pandora’s Box, Kaleah talks about three […]

Are You a Scapegoat

Are You a Scapegoat

Are you someone who is the black sheep of your family? Have you always felt you were different? Do you have a hard time fitting into the “norm” of the people around you? Are you sensitive and empathic? Do you often find yourself the target of other people’s hostility? Do you seem to get blamed […]

Are Narcissists Evil?

Are Narcissists Evil?

The relationship between narcissism and evil is often on the table for discussion in my field of work.  We all have our own vision of what “evil” looks like; it is often imagined as a dark, scary looking, demonic looking individual or “non-person” who has the power to take human life, torture and hurt people […]

Why You Are Addicted to the Narcissist

Why You Are Addicted to the Narcissist

Teal Swan made an excellent video on the topic of Relationship Addiction.  She brings in science of how mice, when given intermittent reinforcement in the form of pellets, they become crazy obsessed, camping out at the pellet dispenser, pushing the button, trying to get a pellet.  When a pellet is dished out intermittently, the mouse […]

Can’t Face the Truth So I will Blame YOU!

Can’t Face the Truth So I will Blame YOU!

It is such a theme, I see in my work and even in my personal life with people who are unable to face the truth about something in their lives, normally something about themselves they don’t want to look at. We all have a self-protective mechanism and most people don’t like constructive criticism. We don’t […]

Caring for Your Feminine Power

Caring for Your Feminine Power

Since the beginning of time, women have been giving their sexual power away.  We learn early in life that our sexuality is something that men covet.  Our sexuality is used against us.  We have experienced abuse and rape at the hands of others, many whom we have loved and trusted. Even if you are a […]

Are You a Vibrational Match for the Narcissist?

Are You a Vibrational Match for the Narcissist?

In this episode of Pandora’s Box, Kaleah explains the energetic dance that happens in relationships and how this applies to your relationship with the narcissist. As you can understand the dance of energy, you can focus on increasing your own vibration so that you are no longer on the radar of the narcissist.

A New Program for Panic and Anxiety!

A New Program for Panic and Anxiety!

If you often find yourself “freaking out,” after the narcissistic discard, or from the PTSD following narcissistic abuse, there is help.   As a counselor specializing in Narcissistic Abuse, I have people contact me on a regular basis needing emergency care.  They are often in a state of panic and don’t know what to do.  […]