Since the beginning of time, women have been giving their sexual power away. We learn early in life that our sexuality is something that men covet. Our sexuality is used against us. We have experienced abuse and rape at the hands of others, many whom we have loved and trusted. Even if you are a […]
In this episode of Pandora’s Box, Kaleah explains the energetic dance that happens in relationships and how this applies to your relationship with the narcissist. As you can understand the dance of energy, you can focus on increasing your own vibration so that you are no longer on the radar of the narcissist.
One of the most difficult situations I encounter in my work counseling people who have been involved with a narcissist is when there are children involved. If you have children with a narcissist, it can feel you are in a prison for the rest of your days. Your own imprisonment is one thing, but what […]
Nothing outside of you has power over you, other then what you give it. The only true power in your life is the power of the creative force within you. We call this force God, or Presence, or Lifeforce or any number of things. It is the same force, regardless of what we call it. […]
Listen on Pandora’s Box Radio I often hear people say “he really has a dark side.” A better way of saying this might be “he has a really dark side.” Because the truth is….we all have a dark side. We live in a world of duality and this means we have good/bad, light/dark, hot/cold, big/little, […]
We’ve all heard that to forgive is divine, but what about those situations that feel nearly impossible to forgive? What about those people who have treated you in such a way that it feels unforgivable? Many of my clients talk to me about forgiveness and the first thing I say is “don’t worry about forgiving […]
Listen and/or download the Podcast on Pandoras-box-radio.com. Most people who experience narcissistic abuse have difficulty getting anybody to understand what they are going through. People understand physical abuse. They understand verbal abuse. They understand very controlling behavior, but they don’t understand the subtle, crazy making, type of slow destruction that results in complex post traumatic […]
In January of 2013 I went to Costa Rica and wrote my book “Healing Narcissistic Abuse and Finding the True Self.” It has been available as an E book but not in print. By popular demand I have now launched this book in print. It is a pretty large book at 382 pages. Healing Narcissistic […]
On my path to working with others in recovery from narcissistic abuse and healing the fragmented soul I have come up against the word “healer” quite a lot. Being a healer is something you are, not something you go to school to learn how to be. Our greatest healing abilities come from within us and […]
Recently, on the advice of a mentor, I revisited Eckhart Tolle’s book “A New Earth”. Often when we have had years of growth between the last time we have read a profound book like this one, it is like reading it for the first time, because there is so much insight we might not have […]