One of the most important lessons we must learn in life, especially if we are hurt and unsatisfied in our intimate relationships is to love ourselves. To love ourselves we must respect and value ourselves, even when others are unable to. In the end, this is the Greatest Love of All.
When you’ve experienced this thing called Narcissistic Abuse, it is normal, and healthy, to want to talk about narcissistic abuse; what you’ve gone through and how that narcissistic person isn’t at all, who you believed them to be.
Are you recovering from narcissistic abuse and want to rise up to a much higher frequency where there is love, nurturing, validation and true freedom? We don’t often see how we get pulled into the lower level narcissistic frequencies through constant devaluing and invalidation of our feelings and reality.
In this episode of Pandoras Box Radio, Kaleah talks about the energetic dance with the narcissist and how to stop dancing, unplug and return to yourself and your connection with divine love.
A continuation of Kaleah’s Series on “Healing the Scapegoat Wound,” Kaleah does a deep dive into understanding one’s role as a Scapegoat and what needs to happen to discontinue playing this part in our lives.
The Scapegoat Wound is incurred in those who are typically blamed and shamed throughout their lives simply by being who they are. They end up believing they are somehow a bad seed and deserve to be mistreated. This is a wound that must be healed in order to change the pattern from the inside out.
The Scapegoat is typically the person who is the negative focus for a person or systems repressed emotions. Scapegoats are loaded up with the burdens of society, or a community and sent out into the wild alone to fend for themselves.
Abandonment is one of the Universal Fears shared by every living being. We often have this feeling like we were dropped off on this strange planet and left here. We often feel disconnected and alone, craving that connection to something beyond our reach. We may find some comfort and connection in our human relationships, but even in these relationships we often feel abandoned, left behind, unwanted and unloved. Healing the Abandonment Wound can be difficult, but it is a worthwhile journey to take.
If you have ever been in a relationship with a narcissist, you might have wondered Does a Narcissist Have a multiple personality? Dissociative identity disorder (DID), previously referred to as multiple personality disorder, is a dissociative disorder involving a disturbance of identity in which two or more separate and distinct personality states (or identities) control […]
We have never really learned the tools of tolerating our pain, let alone embracing it as a pathway to our healing. In this episode of Pandoras Box Radio Kaleah talks about how our deepest pain leads to our greatest healing.
In both my personal work and my work with others, I have discovered something really interesting about why people who are codependent or coming out of relationships with narcissists tend to be obsessive or hyper-focused on the person they are attempting to break away from. Although obsessive thinking can be a symptom of both codependency […]
Kaleah LaRoche is the Founder of Narcissism Free and has been working to support others in their recovery of narcissistic abuse since 2006. She has authored four books on the topic of narcissistic abuse, recovery, and traversing the dark night of the soul. A Clinical Hypnotherapist and Holistic Counselor since 1988, Kaleah brings her compassionate counseling skill and Hypnotherapy to assist in healing and recovery.
Kaleah also has a popular podcast "Pandora's Box." You can go to pandoras-box-radio.com to listen.